Kitchen Renos – Take A Deep Breadth

Thursday evening just as Nat and I are rummaging around to make a frozen fish supper (yuk!!) our son-in-law rang the front door bell. This good man had decided to actually deliver the new kitchen faucet we ordered. The St. Catharines Rona didn’t have the one we wanted, but the Grimsby store did. As he would be going to the Grimsby store later that afternoon, he picked it up and delivered it after his work. We told him we would pick it up from St. Catharines, but Tom really likes to help out as much as he can. Plus, I think his curiosity had gotten the better of him and he was looking for an advance peek at the new kitchen and how far it had come.

This morning before Simon was to arrive at 8:30, I could hear Nat still out in the garage. He still had it in his mind that the side panels were wrong and was still going by the measurements. I grabbed the Purchase Order, turned to the page showing the side panels, read out the purchase order numbers, and as he grabbed each box I put them aside all on their own. All was accounted for. There was then a big discussion about going to the Ikea Burlington Store in the morning (Saturday) to pick up whatever else was needed. I couldn’t have agreed more. This was now getting ridiculous and I wanted Nat’s mind to be re-assured that all parts, thing-a-ma-jigs and whatnots would be actually in our house for Monday morning and Simon’s arrival.

This poor man’s head was spinning and I couldn’t calm him down. I even yelled at him to calm down but he turns around, looks right in my eyes and tells me to calm down!! As I take a deep breadth I realize it’s 9:00 AM and pill time and meanwhile Simon is now getting his stuff in order, avoiding us in the garage at all cost and wondering what in Hell happened after he left last night. As Nat is getting so frustrated and upset about mistakes being made, I re-iterated this was not Ikea’s fault. He even had Simon believing that Ikea was not treating us right. I pulled both aside and told them they had it wrong – most of the screw-ups were ours:

-the one drawer front that slipped out of Nat’s hands, dropping on a cement floor during assembly and creating such a corner dent it had to be replaced – (already re-ordered and received);

-one more drawer front that was dinged but only noticed by Simon once that cabinet was installed. This was a bit of a surprise to me, but I bit my tongue. This was the first cabinet assembled and for some reason became an experiment in Ikea cabinetry assembly.;

-the so-called missing side panels (neither of which man could see them on the purchase order;

-an extra side panel to go between the oven and dishwasher (only because of the original screw-up of kitchen measurements)

-the Deco Strips (for hiding under cabinet lighting) were never ordered because we didn’t think they were needed.

In order to cool off, I sat in the office getting next weeks’ pills ready while Nat sat in the dining room doing his crossword puzzle. Simon and Dale worked away as if nothing had happened, but what I wouldn’t have given to read their minds. Those poor lads must think we’re Edith and Archie Bunker or The Jeffersons. I soon returned and told Nat (not suggested but told) we were going to The Mandarin for lunch in order to get out of the house, take some really deep breadths and relax somewhat. As we’ve done in the past, our lunch at The Mandarin is usually big enough to last us until the next day. We’re usually too full to think about a supper and only grab a drink and a small snack when needed. By doing this we’d be taking care of lunch and supper all in one swoop. Things are too discombobulated in this house right now to even think about meal preparation.

Our lunch was very nice and yes, relaxing, and when we returned home we were again surprised at the progress being made. The base cabinets were now going in, Simon was making the insert for the upper cabinet above the fridge and Dale was working away at putting up door hinges, etc. Finally everyone had settled in for the afternoon, the boys did their work, we sat around and all was good on Dominion Road again. We even had quite a few laughs with Simon and Dale whenever some topic came up and we all joined in. What a difference a good laugh can do. Thanks boys!!

Kitchen Reno – Final Stretch

For Nat April Fools’ day was certainly no joke. He was back in the garage finalizing the second last of the cabinets with drawers. Thinking he was on the last one, I had to be the bearer of bad news and tell him he had one more.

There are 5 cabinets with drawers – one with 4 drawers, one with 3 drawers, 3 with 2 drawers (including 2 of the 3 with a hidden drawer inside). Poor Nat. He was so beside himself trying to figure our each little cartoon in the Ikea assembly booklets. At one point he failed to realize that the “hidden” drawers had to have their rails pushed back by one hole so as to be covered by the main face of the cabinet. You can get confused very easily unless you look very closely at the drawings. A tiny, tiny little detail that made him frustrated by the minute.

After so many struggles with the first drawer cabinet, I thought he was on his way with the second one. Apparently not. It was a struggle to figure our the “hidden” drawer but once I saw the railing setting back a hole, it became apparent and things finally started to click in. This continued throughout Saturday. This morning he was back at it.

Taking Sunday morning off, he wanted to get the very last drawer cabinet completed in the afternoon. Only one or two hiccups and he had lift-off. Despite his frustration he managed to finish by mid-afternoon and it was kind of obvious we would head down the road to Green Acres for a fish ‘n chip supper. I had completed my chores – laundry and baking cookies – and he was so relieved to be finished, too. No brainer – eat out and save the aggravation of making anything.

During the last couple of days, we’ve also been on the lookout for one of my most expensive and favourite pinky rings. It was a 10mm sized ring I had specially ordered on a shopping trip with Bonnie at Ashley Jewellers at Limeridge Mall shortly after I was married. I never discovered it was gone until sitting down Wednesday evening. Naturally, we tore the place apart and looked everywhere, even including the recycle bins and to no avail. We have since concluded that it may have slipped off in the garage while I was helping to sort through Ikea boxes. Nat has been keeping an eye out, but we may not have a good search until we start to shift and sort the base and wall cabinets from each other, along with sorting through the balance of sink, hinge, leg, countertop, door boxes, etc. I’m absolutely devastated. With losing weight my fingers have somehow shrunk and I have to be very careful with the rings I wear. I’ll have to bite the bullet and get them re-sized one of these days.

Again, with my weight loss, I’ve been feeling so great about myself and am so proud of how far I’ve come. My wardrobe has had to be up-dated to some degree and I’ve been able to find a more up-to-date look than my previous one. I found some fabulous Ralph Lauren shorts at The Hudsons Bay online store, along with some classier looking blouses. It’s certainly been a real ego booster buying some new duds and having more energy than before. I still get tired rather quickly but I manage to fight through it sometimes making me even more proud of how far I’ve come. Hope the Doc’s visit in a week or so will be full of coodos!!

With everything done, Nat and I are going to organize the cabinets according to where they go and call our contractor for a date for installation. I’m getting excited now and naturally, am looking forward to shopping for new decorative items. Every good woman knows you can’t re-use what was in the your old kitchen, as you’re getting a whole new look. Only stands to reason that the decorative items will need to be replaced to compliment the new look!!

Is It Really Worth Fighting For?

From the very first time Nat and I set eyes on this home, we knew there would be renovations to be done. However, once we actually moved in, it became very apparent the renovations were going to be more extensive than first thought.

The main bathroom vanity was too short, the tub and sink were lopsided and smoke burns scattered around, along with a scratched and torn floor hidden by scatter rugs. A huge poplar tree looked as if it was about to crash down upon the roof. The back deck was barely hanging on by its own railing. The front walkway was hidden by foliage and soil. The garage door would open on good days. The driveway looked as if an 18-Wheeler had driven on it. The front and back yards were obviously hiding building materials left from the original build – the lumpy, bumpy parts were everywhere. Oh, and I musn’t forget about that bloody sump pump about to flow over its banks during a huge rain storm as Nat and I bailed bucket-upon-bucket of water at 2:30 AM.

This really doesn’t sound very appealing, but time after time some unexpected little thing kept cropping its head in need of repair. Naturally, every extra penny we hoped on using for planned renovations began to disappear on things around the house we hadn’t expected. The extra money we borrowed dissipated bit-by-bit over the last seven or so years. Alas, the pot has been drained and no money left for the only thing I hoped would get done – a new Kitchen. We do, however, have a lovely front walkway, back walkway, large-sized deck, new upstairs bathroom, new downstairs bathroom, new air-conditioner, new generator (well worth the money, and I don’t regret), new driveway with stone border, new garage door (again, really needed), etc.

I realize most of these items were required to prevent any future problems from occurring that would  be even more expensive to repair. One or two items, I will admit, could have been done further down the road, but at the time were agreed upon because at the time the money was there.

With each passing project I watched as our funds were drained and a new kitchen was now becoming virtually unaffordable – and still is. Every now and again I’d broach the subject with Nat and discussions would ensue regarding the whys and why nots. Nat (along with some other family members) couldn’t always see the reasoning behind any kitchen renovations. The kitchen (to them) seems to be alright. My argument – it’s not them that has to work in it, bake in it, clean it or even put up with its lack of storage.

I broached the subject one last time this year. Without hesitation arguments ensued, discussions were held, tears were shed and misunderstandings abounded. Nat knows any reno money is gone and is concerned, as he should be, about how we would pay for this huge project. He also has a huge misunderstanding of why I even want to tackle such a thing now. My answer – he’s had his turn so now it’s mine to get something done around this house that I’m going to enjoy. He should also realize that the kitchen was on our “priority List” when we first moved in. Somehow, during the years, it just kept being put on the back burner, hoping it would go away. He also doesn’t understand – if it ain’t broke,  why fix it – an old school attitude that I’ve never followed. Again, we bought this house to “make it ours’” and trust me, the kitchen is nowhere near what I would have planned on. The exterior of the house looks wonderful (Nat’s projects and renos), but the interior still needs new carpets in a couple rooms, a couple ceiling light fixtures, and other little small things that any man can easily ignore because he can’t see the whole picture – a complete look. Men never think about the little things that make a house a home – and Nat is no exception at times.

The arguments and debates went on for days. Sometimes I was afraid to bring up the subject. We tossed ideas back and forth and he explained what had to be done and questioned how we could redesign the kitchen in order to get rid of a certain corner and shelf that are a complete waste of space. Nat was fighting me (or so it seemed) on every front and, I never realized why, until he confessed what his little brain was thinking about. How we would finance this whole thing. Once all the options were explored and cooler minds prevailed, he finally suggested we call our contractor to pick his brains and come up with some ideas that would be feasible and relatively inexpensive. We would then take his ideas and measurements to Ikea and  Home Depot for plans and cost.

Simon certainly came up with an unexpected re-design that would increase cupboard space, countertop space and even add two extra cabinets and countertop on the north wall. I, naturally, was ecstatic and everything sounded kind of quick and easy to do. What were the odds – they wouldn’t be that quick, that easy or even that inexpensive. Possible problems, more shortfalls, and unforeseen scenarios kept cropping up. There were times I was beginning to doubt this whole thing would even go ahead. Worried about money, stress and frustration I was on the verge of throwing up my hands and saying “just forget about it!!”.  This, however, would really piss off dear hubby after all of the arguments and discussions and finally coming to terms with going ahead.

Finally, we took a day trip to Ikea to get their help and advice. Unexpectedly, the kitchen department was full of other people with the same ideas. The staff even admitted this was quite unusual for a Tuesday afternoon. We were shown a computer monitor, and as I had already tried out their kitchen planning program at home, logged in and were shown the basics of how to begin. It took more time than we expected, but we were able to come up with a half-decent design we really liked and after final consultation headed for home to let everything sink in. We would also head over to Home Depot for their help and expertise another day.

With more discussions, measurements and tweeks, we did, in fact, go to Home Depot and had a really nice experience going through the whole process of a similar design to what we had in mind. Not mentioning that we had already been to Ikea, we were absolutely shocked with the final cost – almost twice the price of Ikea – but, naturally, gorgeous with its added crown molding, specialty cabinets and other small accessories. Their price, however, did NOT include any handles, knobs, crown molding and countertop – the price just included the built-up cabinetry. Our jaws dropped (not in front of the sales rep, of course).

Now that our brains were totally fried on how much this little enterprise was going to be, we mulled over the pros and cons. We’ll call our contractor again to see what his estimate(s) would be for installation and take things from there as to which way to go. If we went with Ikea we’d have to build up all the cabinetry ourselves, along with storing them until installation can take place. Installation is quick and relatively easy, but until that time we’re going to have built-up cabinets hanging from the ceiling. We’ll have to clear out the entire kitchen in order to lay the new flooring (which we’ll also extend to the dining room). There will be box upon box upon box in the garage and wherever else there’s space. Nat thinks he’s sure he can assemble the cabinetry, but it’s going to take a lot of patience and good temperament which Nat doesn’t always have. I’m more than willing to help, but if you know our history that’s not always a “good” thing!!

The Home Depot way is more expensive, but everything is completely done and delivered. The cabinetry comes assembled but takes a bit more labour for installation. We’ll have a little extra leg work in picking out accessories, but that’s less labour intensive. Plus our contractor is proficient in cabinetry installation, and has never worked with Ikea’s program. More money, but so much less stress and effort on our part. That alone is worth some extra bucks!!

We’ll continue to mull things over, wait for our contractor’s further help, and hopefully one of these days a final plan will be put in place. For that alone, I can’t wait. My brain is doing a square dance in my head – partner left, partner right, dozy doh – and making decisions, especially right ones, has never been my forte´. Let’s pray, shall we!!!

Organizing – My Life’s Mission

Our one and only grandson turned 15 this week. He’s grown taller than his grandfather and is getting close to his dad. We all gathered at Shawn’s place for cake and presents and had a great time. Always nice to see Lucas’ other grandmother and get caught up on news. Lucas was thrilled with the money he received and would now be able to get new duds. Both Nat and I thought we’d never see the day where our hyper-active grandson would be interested in clothes, but he’s now at that age where clothes and girls are “in”. It was also really nice to get caught up on his baseball games and where he’ll be playing this year. He’ll be back with the Niagara Falls club, so Nat and I will be able to watch more of his game, which we missed doing last year because of the extensive travelling he had to do. We’re looking forward to it.

With the two new book cases now snuggly in their places I’ve been having a great time getting re-organized. The DVD cabinet is looking great and also makes that little alcove look bigger – bonus!! The (wrong coloured) cabinet is now in the office closet (replacing one of those plastic 4-drawer thingies) and is even better than I had hoped. It’s holding so much more that the 4-drawer unit and looks great despite the fact it’s hidden behind louvred doors. I also had to re-arrange one of the two Ikea book cases that Mom gave me for Christmas oh so many, many years ago and which have never left my side. I’ve used them wherever I’ve moved and they’ve survived the test of time. Managing to empty all of the papers, office supplies, tape, envelopes, etc. to that book case, I can dispose of the one filing cabinet and make the office look bigger – another bonus!  Not wanting to spend a lot of money on this project, I still managed to buy a couple of organizers, trays and racks to fill my little heart with glee as I whiled away the hours clearing, sorting and putting things back. It’s a silly thing, but it’s my thing – and I absolutely love doing it. I literally go to bed thinking ahead of time of how and where I’ll put stuff. It’s like Christmas to me!

The last of the cabinetry to be decorated is under the television, but I’ll work away on that as I find a couple of small items that will look good and fit the rest of the decor.

With the bulk of the organizing now complete, Nat and I headed into St. Catharines this afternoon. My regular check-up with Dr. Broksi was good news all around. The blood pressure was up a little bit, but the drive into the City has horrendous. We drove through blinding snow, whiteout conditions and an unplowed QEW. A bit hairy to say the least but we didn’t realize how bad it was going to get until we reached Niagara Falls and St. Catharines. It was slow going and just as well we left a bit earlier than expected, as we arrived just a couple minutes short of my scheduled appointment. With the good news in hand we took a chance and trekked over to WalMart on 4th Avenue to pick up a couple of small items and then back to Niagara Falls to drop off the rest of Lucas’ birthday present. We had ordered movie tickets with free drink and popcorn for two and they arrived today in the mail, so we made the excuse to drop them by his Mom’s on our way home. As the snow was really blowing at this point we dug in our heels and headed for the warmth of our little house, ordering pizza on the way.